The opening week of March was revolutionary in terms of gender politics in Pakistan in many ways. Women leaders and activists made a greater impact than ever before for rallying for the Women’s March, and men all over the internet were triggered.
Leading the response of social conservative misogynistic Pakistani men was their patron saint, Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar. Presented by the Pakistani conservative media as an intellectual, it is their answer to the rhetoric of educated liberal and progressive women who have started pushing the narrative of feminism in public discourse.
A long time anti-intellectual, Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar had recently caught attention with a hideous woman-hating interview, and many of his plays apparently depict women in the same light. Not to take away the artist’s license, but when you pose yourself as a philosopher of life and preach about puritanical sexuality, then surely it becomes hard to separate art from propaganda. Especially when your top client is the state propaganda machinery anyway.
Khalil Ur Rehman hurled expletives and profanities at @marvisirmed and the anchorperson didn’t even stop him?!
Also @reportpemra how was this allowed to air? pic.twitter.com/pas9fjKRES
— Anaya Khan (@AnayaNKhan) March 3, 2020
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Here is the unaired part of the Khalil ur Rahman Marvi Sarmad interaction – don’t see how anyone can still continue to support Khalil ur Rahman after this.
At this point I feel bad for him. He genuinely needs mental counselling. Aamir Liaquat is spot on,isolate him from society. pic.twitter.com/utB3brqUQ2
— Shehzad Ghias Shaikh (@Shehzad89) March 6, 2020
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On a television talk show, Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar lost his temper and verbally abused and attacked feminist analyst and commentator Marvi Sirmed. All when they were discussing the Pakistani feminist slogan “Mera Jism Meri Marzi” or “My Body, My Choice.” Not only did he degraded Marvi but just like all conversations about Aurat March, he alluded to those women being sexually corrupt. Such comments were also widely made across the conservative media as well as the allegation of implementing a foreign-funded agenda.
Unfortunately, most of the people in socially conservative Pakistan believe that it is women talking about their right to have as much sex they want. While it should indeed be a part of their freedom, but it is not the only freedom indeed. Women particularly are talking about their right to be left alone, to not be harassed or raped, and yes, even to have their reproductive choice.
The actor believes that the slogan is part of Western campaign being exploited locally https://t.co/QBScIW1WPt pic.twitter.com/Bosrw95QEz
— Tribune Life & Style (@ETLifeandStyle) March 6, 2020
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With the likes of Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar, even otherwise seemingly liberal figures, and unfortunately encouraged by ignorant social conservative politicians such as Faisal Javed Khan, conservative men in Pakistan have taken it upon themselves to harass women for speaking up for their rights. They have been slut-shaming the organizers and the participants of the Women’s March, and furthermore, stooping as low as to block the public space they have been trying to occupy.
آپ عورت مارچ کے سلوگنز پر تنقید کر رہے ہیں کہ وہ اسلامی اقدار اور معاشرتی اقدار کیخلاف ہے۔ خواتین کہہ رہی ہیں کہ “میرا جسم میری مرضی” ۔ وہ کسی مرد کو تو نہیں کہہ رہیں کہ “تمہارا جسم میری مرضی”۔ اس میں کیا مذہب یا معاشرتی اقدار کے خلاف ہے؟
عدالت نے بھی مارچ کے حق میں فیصلہ دیا1/2 pic.twitter.com/GAlSO6DKIU— Shahzeb Khanzada (@shazbkhanzdaGEO) March 7, 2020
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عورت اپنے حقوق مردوں سے کیسے مانگیں ، اسکا طریقہ کار بھی مرد ہی کیوں عورت کو بتائے؟ 2/2 pic.twitter.com/wmlgot5YTC
— Shahzeb Khanzada (@shazbkhanzdaGEO) March 7, 2020
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This mindset is evident from the coverage of gotcha conservative “journalist” Yasir Shami, trying to blackmail and shame a male ally at the Aurat March by invoking Islamic traditions.
Yasir shami giving answer to #merajismmerimerzi pic.twitter.com/Qd40RarLs0
— Asad Mehar (@AsadMehar872) March 11, 2020
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It was inspired by the same anti-intellectualism and outright bigotry that the Lal Masjid goons, the same infamous mosque in the middle of Islamabad that had threatened armed rebellion against the state, that vandalized Aurat March artwork and posters. JUI-F chief Maulana Fazl-ur-Rehman, an otherwise democratic politician, also threatened violence if the Aurat March materialized.
Fazlur Rehman’s threats being carried out by his workers. Insecure JUI-F men tearing down #AuratAzadiMarch posters in Islamabad & bragging about it on their fb page as if they’re doing some great service to Islam. This is #WhyIMarch & why we must all stand with #AuratMarch2020. pic.twitter.com/a0cc7gt5z4
— Ammar Rashid #StayHome #BasicIncomeNow (@AmmarRashidT) March 1, 2020
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The first two are the photos of the mural which has been sprayed black by the goons of Lal Masjid in Islamabad. The city administration didn’t do anything. The police stood there watching and asking us to stop. This was painted by permission of the family. How is this okay?! pic.twitter.com/jxhcsrC0E6
— Tooba Syed AWP ☭ #PrayAtHome #BasicIncomeNOW (@Tooba_Sd) March 3, 2020
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This mural should haunt us all.
Once again, the labour of love and peace was met with aggression and violence from the religious thugs…people who have forever used religion and culture to push women and their movements back.
This is painful. #AuratAzadiMarch2020 pic.twitter.com/zUcwgC3F5D
— Maria H. Malik ☭ #StayHome (@marriyamalik1) March 3, 2020
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Lal Masjid goons arrived to violently shut down a beautiful mural painting by #AuratAzadiMarch2020 artists in G-7 Islamabad because of ‘fahashi’ & ‘uncovered women’. The police arrived & asked the artists to stop & leave ‘to avoid any trouble’. Barefaced fundamentalist thuggery. pic.twitter.com/wnDEy4Tu00
— Ammar Rashid #StayHome #BasicIncomeNow (@AmmarRashidT) March 3, 2020
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Lal Masjid spokesperson Haroon Rashid confirmed to SAMAA Digital that the men had been sent on Maulana Abdul Aziz’s advice. Aziz is a cleric and khateeb at the mosque. https://t.co/F30eAuHatp
— Mahim Maher (@Mahim_Maher) March 4, 2020
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And if you think that this is extreme behavior only exhibited by the orthodox religious conservatives, there is no shortage of their supposed moderate and liberal allies who are socially conservative at heart and still want to perpetuate regressive roles for women. A similar mindset was at work when a conservative lawyer filed a petition with the Islamabad High Court to block Aurat March on the charge that it was against Islamic values. Challenged by the Women Democratic Forum led by Ismat Shahjahan, the relatively liberal judge Athar Minallah threw the petition out.
The most dangerous women in the country doing the work! #AuratAzadiMarch2020 pic.twitter.com/Yhy0T8NlNX
— Tooba Syed AWP ☭ #PrayAtHome #BasicIncomeNOW (@Tooba_Sd) March 2, 2020
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It was an act of sheer courage itself that brave women political workers of the Women Democratic Front and the Awami Workers Party led by Tooba Syed went from street to street to put up posters for the March 8 event. This was probably unimaginable a few years back in the Islamic Republic but the courageous progressive women have made their presence felt on the ground in recent years.
This war of words between social conservatives and progressive women and their male allies have turned International Women’s Day into a battle of ideologies. However, the saddest bit is that in a country where vulnerable women and children have little protection from rape, the patriarchy is trying to suffocate and eliminate any dissent rebelling against their oppressive structure. At least, it had some immediate impact as Geo TV Network was forced to end their recently concluded contract with Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar.
Geo Entertainment has suspended its play-film deal with KhalilurRehman Qamar until he apologises for abusing Marvi Sirmed. He has contracts with lots of other companies so I’m going to assume he won’t care too much about this. But it’s important that Geo has set this precedent https://t.co/I8OkkVTyMp
— Mehreen Zahra-Malik (@mehreenzahra) March 5, 2020
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جب تک عورت کا جسم، اس کی شکل اور اس کا حلیہ مردوں کی آنکھوں کو نہ بھائے، تب تک نہ اس کی عزت کی جائے گی اور اس کے بارے میں مرد کہیں گے کہ ہم اس پر تھوکتے بھی نہیں۔” ماروی سرمد#UrduVOA #AuratMarch @marvisirmed @Gulalai_Ismail pic.twitter.com/KXr7GmpB25
— VOA Urdu (@URDUVOA) March 9, 2020
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#MeraJismMeriMarzi has triggered a discussion in every household: what to do with our bodies on March 8?
We’ll be there, holding our posters and raising our voices.
The ideological fight for #AuratMarch2020 is very much real.
— Aima Khosa (@aimaMK) March 5, 2020
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However, none of the bullying and abuse has been able to stop these women to have their voices heard. The scenes in their press conferences chanting the slogan that has become the bane of the life of conservative men in Pakistan were surreal. The way women marched this March 8 under the banner of Women Democratic Front has probably never been seen ever since Zia-ul-Haq took power in Pakistan. Each moment of the March was revolutionary and we can hear and see the foundations of Pakistan.
Scenes during #AuratMarch2020 presser at #Lahore Press Club. pic.twitter.com/yoqyxNsyK8
— Shiraz Hassan (@ShirazHassan) March 5, 2020
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POWER!!! https://t.co/ZwXCkd7Tlj
— Tooba Syed AWP ☭ #PrayAtHome #BasicIncomeNOW (@Tooba_Sd) March 6, 2020
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I have protested and demonstrated countless times in this city but never have I seen so many people from the city coming out for a cause. The women of Islamabad you were wonderful yesterday. Anyone who wants to continue building & organising. Get in touch! pic.twitter.com/kzKymnRiz8
— Tooba Syed AWP ☭ #PrayAtHome #BasicIncomeNOW (@Tooba_Sd) March 9, 2020
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Hum nahin rukein ge,
Hum nahin jhukein ge,
Hum nahin darein ge,
Hum lein k rahein ge,
A Z A D IKarachi 💗✊
#AuratMarch2020 pic.twitter.com/ts2JMReSEp— Reem Khurshid (@ReemKhurshid) March 8, 2020
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Mr Qamar was most irked by the slogan Mera jism meri marzi.
For him, let’s say it again. And a gain. And again…
MERA JISM MERI MARZI
— Marvi Sirmed (@marvisirmed) March 3, 2020
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At least, their morals have been laid bare for the whole world to see.
That’s why women say, “Mera Jism, Meri Marzi.”
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When Aurat March was Attacked by Islamists in Islamabad
Source: Reuters
On March 8, when progressive and liberal women were marching for their rights in Islamabad, and the Islamist parties decided to march alongside them. No, hell did not freeze over. The “Haya March” or the “Honor March” was meant to counter the agenda of the Women’s March on International Women’s Day. And the ingenious Islamabad Capital Administration, which had to be convinced to allow space to Aurat Azadi March, thought it necessary to allow the Islamist rally to be held right next to it at the National Press Club.
A natural consequence of this disastrous setup was chaos, indiscipline, and violence resulting in multiple injuries. Fortunately, nobody lost their life, even though the savage mullahs almost ensured it. And many of us, the citizens of Rawalpindi and Islamabad, were there to witness it.
While I have not favored the idea of attending the women’s march for years, primarily because I believe that men should not occupy women’s space on the occasion. Especially when a lot of enemies of the march had infiltrated just to harass women, as a few cases came out. However, I knew it was different this time because it was more like an ideological battlefield and we had to show up to show solidarity, other than covering it for a documentary. And the protest plot outside the National Press Club sure looked like a battlefield alright.
The March day afternoon was partly clear after a rainy morning and the assembly area was all wet and muddy. A tent fence divided both sides of the road by the Press Club leading to the F6 market and on the far side, the Haya March and its rally were to take place. Before any activity would begin on the progressive side on the assembly area, the Jamaat-e-Islami women were done marching as bus after bus with Jamaat-e-Islami flags would transport workers to the venue. However, the burka-clad women stuck around, apart from the Hijabi types who were also leading a rally, for the speeches by the “Ulema” or religious scholar leaders of the three Islamist groups organizing the march, Jamaat-e-Islami, Sunni Ittehad, and JUI-F.
Throughout the day, inflammatory speeches were heard from the other side. In just about any given speech, women in the Aurat March, just a few meters away were condemned as prostitutes, as women who would sell their bodies to the highest bidder. Despite all the venom, which was left unnoticed by the Islamabad Capital Territory Police, apparently already bracing for a riot by the looks of their gear, no reaction came from the progressive side. Meanwhile, the police did not bother to intervene to stop the hate speech and did not think for a minute what consequences it could possibly have. It is funny how the Islamabad DC was having a hard time allowing the Aurat March but did not lift a finger when the participants of the reactionary Islamist March showed up.
However, after all the speeches of the high officials of the Islamist alliance were over, their women participants, very few of who got to even speak, were ordered to exit the venue. Once they were gone, all the “political workers” positioned themselves to attack the fragile tent curtain partition separating them from the Aurat March. They started throwing large stones, bricks, canes, and shoes at the Aurat March and finally stormed on, barely controlled by the cops.
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A few people even got injured during the assault who were taken for medical help. But perhaps the most dangerous instance was Women Democratic Front leader Ismat Shahjahan who led the fight in Islamabad getting hit by a stone in her head. This could very easily have resulted in anything and the goons from JUI-F, Jamaat-e-Islami, and Sunni Ittehad did not consider the possible consequences of their actions for a moment. They indeed carried out the threats of their leader made a few days ago.
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The most condemnable bit was that Islamabad Police, always pandering to the violent religious forces, had refused the Aurat March participants to go ahead on the agreed-upon route. Ironically, the ICT Headquarters building was right next to the Press Club. Led by Tooba Syed, the march stopped in front of the building and vowed to block the road until the march was permitted to follow its route all the way to D-Chowk near the Parliament House. She, along with many other women activists of the Women Democratic Front, showed immense courage in the face of threats to their lives and had their voices heard.
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Since the Lal Masjid controversy, Islamabad has essentially become a battleground for secular political elements and the established theocratic fundamentalists in the country. Perhaps nothing manifests this conflict better than this single incident during the Aurat March, one which could have so easily resulted in the loss of life.
However, the courage displayed by the women in the face of violence and intimidation, especially the leadership of Women Democratic Forum under Ismat Shahjahan and Tooba Syed, gave anyone witnessing those scenes goosebumps. So many had tears in their eyes on the way forward and on the way back, not because they were afraid, hurt, or intimidated, but because they were proud to be a part of history.
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This is why Aurat March looks like a revolution and perhaps without its moment, it would not have proved so iconic. Bold, confident, emancipated women pissing social conservative mullahs and their allies off so much that they can barely hold themselves back from attacking them. It is simply shocking but that is what defines gender relations in Pakistan today.
The women have spoken up. They are marching and nothing can stop them now.
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